Wedding In The Turkey

It is a well-known fact that the wedding is significant event in our life. In the world majority of the people get married and some people get married in the church and some people get married in the town hall. Every event during the wedding depends, where do you live in? What are your cultural rules? and what do you want in your wedding? Wedding have a lot of customs, in Turkey. Some of these, permission of the wedding, henna night and autocue.

    First of all, before the engaged groom’s side have to go bride’s home with flowers and chocolate. When groom’s family goes to bride’s home, bride prospective bride prepare Turkish coffee and she put to salt in the intended groom’s coffee. After that, she offers it to each person and if intended groom drink the coffee it means he oppose bride’s every behavior and he stand by bride at any time. After the coffee, older man on the groom’s side start the say good something about the groom and the want the permission for grooms and bride's wedding. If bride’s side gives permission, groom and bride wear the ring, but their rings tied the each other with red ribbon. Elder man says something about their loyalty and he cut their ribbon. Thereafter, groom and bride kiss their relatives hands.

      Second of all, henna night very common event in Turkey. Before the wedding bride’s sides organize this night and invited the grooms side. Generally guess comprise the women. Every women dance like crazy for several hours. After the several hours bride sit the chair which stand in the middle and women walk around the bride. Additionally, they sing a traditional song to bride’s crying. After a few minutes, someone put the henna on the bride’s hands. In the end of the night henna was put on the bride's hand and foot.

   The final reason, after the wedding ceremony generally some people who grooms side, they tied toweling their cars and they get into their cars. They constitute autocue and they drive away toward brides house with bride and groom. When they go to the brides houses, bride kisses her family and her father tied red ribbon her loin. In addition, her father put on the bridal veil and red shawl. Next bride and groom go to the groom’s house with autocue. When they go to there, groom's families sacrifice sheep for groom's welfare. After that, new couple kisses the groom’s family’s hands.

  All of this point to the fact that my country has got a lot of customs about wedding and I think they are very enjoyable and crucial. Customs has got significant meaning in the wedding in my country. Permission wedding, henna and autocue only few sample about wedding in Turkey.

Cultural Rules

  Every country has a lot of cultural rules, because cultural rules are very significant things for countries. Every rule comes to historical event and rules have important meaning for their countries. Every year, many people visit other countries for learning something about countries and entertainment. Cultural rules have very important feature for learning a lot of things about countries. Cultural rules help the visitor for understand their history; communicate with each other and their behavior.

   First of all, some people prefer to visit historical places. If they search about cultural rules, they learn about the historical places very easily. For example when they visit the historical homes in turkey they probably see the yard in front of the home. Some people who live in turkey they got married in the yard, so yard has essential meaning. If they don’t learn cultural rules, they might see only, empty place.

  Second of all, cultural rules have got important effect on the communication. Every word composed to reason of the historical accumulation. Every word has got distinctive meaning on the different countries. Some words have very good meaning but some word bad meaning and people might misunderstand their saying.

  The final reason, cultural rules have got crucial effect on the behavior. Every people react for every event. For example, if you eat very delicious meal, in turkey, they combine their fingers and they shake it. It means, the food is very palatable. But, in Italy it has got very bad meaning.

       All of this point to the fact that if they learn something about cultural rules before the visit, they understand country and people very easily, because cultural rules explain a lot of things about the real life on the country. They need to learn cultural rules, because they don’t visit there only, at the same time they live and feel the

Equal=Uniform

  In most countries of the world, students wear the uniforms. In Turkey, students have to wear uniform some high school and primary school, but many students think the uniform shouldn’t wear a school. The government asked the students their thinking about school uniforms and some students want to wear casual clothes at the school. In my opinion, students should wear uniform, because every students have different style, students spend a lot of time for choose their clothes and a lot of students don’t have enough money for buy new clothes.

   The first reason, students who go to school every day and ıf they don’t wear uniform, they feel like they have to wear distinctive clothes for each every day, because they are young and they look at the their friends and they talk about their appearance. For example, some students wear clothes and their friends say bathing and students can be sorry and they can’t focus their lesson, so they can’t pass their exams.

    Another reason, students spend a lot of time for choose clothes. Before the school, students choose and they get ready for school. Some students get up early, wear clothes and they spend time in the face of mirror. Sometimes, they can’t have breakfast, because they haven’t got enough time for having breakfast. If students wear school uniform, they have got a lot of time. In this way, students can have a lot of time for their lessons, homework, breakfast and games.

    The third reason, every student don’t have enough money for buying new clothes, so they can’t buying very clothes for wearing  at the school.in this way students realize the class  distinction. Students separate a lot of group. Wealthy students exclude the poor students. So, balance is changed between the students.

   All of this point to the fact that, students wear uniform at school. In this way, every students can be equal , have a lot of time and can be successful in their lessons.

Wealthy People

  It is a well-known fact that a lot of people want to be rich people, so most of the people play the chance games. They hope to wins these games and want to be wealthy. If they win the games, they usually buy new and huge homes and last model cars, because they want to have a comfortable life.

       First of all, ıf people win the lottery, they immediately buy new and big houses. After that, they   buy new furniture for their new homes. A lot of people are greedy and they want to show other people with their ware. So, they want to buy flamboyant things. The big home, big garden, big pool which show the affect the other people. After the first home, they buy other homes, because they need to source of income for continues their expensive life.

    Second of all, they buy last model cars, because luxiours cars are very expensive, safe and comfortable. Especially, men have very information about cars and when they talk about the cars, men show of their cars. ıf young men who win the lottery, they immediately buy new car and they drive the car very fast and they think cars have very impressive feature on the girl. They use to cars for making a girlfriend.

    All of this points to the fact that, if people win the lottery, they buy a lot of things for their life and gossip.  Home and  car essential thing for their life , but they never remember money don’t bring happiness forever.

Smoking

    İn most countries of the world, a lot of people smoke cigarette. It is a well-known fact that smoking is very harmful for our body. Some governments forbid the smoking in the close side. Smoking is detrimental for our health and people spend a lot of money to buy cigarette.

     First of all, cigarette is very harmful. A lot of people dies for this reason and some people can get a cancer and waste time in the hospital and they take medicines. Some people who get a cancer, they lost some organs. It seems the people that smoking is very entreating, but it is important emphases cigarette steal time in our life.

    The second reason, as I mentored before people spend their money for buying cigarette. While the people are buying cigarette, they don’t think their health and financial positions. A lot of people who are very hungry and they can’t buy meal, because they haven’t got enough money but some people who smoke the cigarette and they don’t think hungry people. On the one hand, people dies, because they are very hungry. On the another hand people dies, because they poison themselves, while they smoking cigarette.

    To sum up, the government should bon the people who cause of their death, we can say they suicide. If we want to health and wealthy life, we give up

to cigarette.

Technological Tools' Benefits

  İt is generally agreed today that technological tools are very useful. A lot of people can use this tools which takes a lot of  part of their life. Our lives can be very useful with technological tools. We can use of technological tools for transportation and communication.

  First of all, we use technological tools for transportation. A lot of people go to school, work and travel every day. We can arrive to our destinations very easily. Some people either drive car or prefer bus and some people use plane for farther places. If we can’t use technology and we want to go other countries, we have to spend a lot of time. When people use technological tools, they can have extra time and energy.

  The second reason, we use to technological tool is communicate with other people who live other country or for away each other. Some people have to go to other countries for working or having education. They may miss their family or relatives. They can communicate each other very easily with technological tools. They can hear their families’ sound with the phone or even they can see the their families’ face with using computer.

  All of this points to the fact that our lives may be easy very much with technological tools. When we use to technological tools, we can have a lot of time for doing something. For instance, while we going to somewhere with plane, we can read book. By a large, we use technology everywhere of our life for can be make very comfortable.

Ramadan

Ramadan Bayram is an important holiday for Müslims. Before the holiday, we usually fast . Fasting starts the morning at ezan and fnishes the evening during azans and we don't eat anything. İn the morning, we prepare  a lot of meals for sahur. After, when we heard the morning ezan, we stop eating. İn the evening,when we heard evening during ezan, we start to eat again.  We usually prepare special meals, in others words, dinner is different to others days, because we are very hungry and we want to eat very delicious meal. İn the last week of the Ramadan, we go to the shopping  center to buy new clothes and we make a dessert. We generally make baklava. My mother and my aunts go to the my grandmother's home and they make baklava,but they don't take it, because people usually visit old people's hous.

The last day of the Ramadan, in the morning, we go to the my grandparent's home. After, we make pişi and we give children to carry our neigboor. İn the afternoon, we go to the tombs, and we pray for people has dead. At night , we don't sleep late, because first day of the Ramadan starts very eary. The first day of the Bayram, men go to the mosque for Bayram salah. We prepare the breakfast until they come home. When they come home we kiss their hand and they give money or candy. After, we have a breakfast. Finally we visit our relations the all three days and we kiss their hands, too. They treat dessert us.