It is a well-known fact that the wedding is
significant event in our life. In the world majority of the people get married
and some people get married in the church and some people get married in the
town hall. Every event during the wedding depends, where do you live in? What
are your cultural rules? and what do you want in your wedding? Wedding have a
lot of customs, in Turkey. Some of these, permission of the wedding, henna
night and autocue.
First of
all, before the engaged groom’s side have to go bride’s home with flowers and
chocolate. When groom’s family goes to bride’s home, bride prospective bride
prepare Turkish coffee and she put to salt in the intended groom’s coffee.
After that, she offers it to each person and if intended groom drink the coffee
it means he oppose bride’s every behavior and he stand by bride at any time.
After the coffee, older man on the groom’s side start the say good something
about the groom and the want the permission for grooms and bride's wedding. If
bride’s side gives permission, groom and bride wear the ring, but their rings
tied the each other with red ribbon. Elder man says something about their
loyalty and he cut their ribbon. Thereafter, groom and bride kiss their
relatives hands.
Second of
all, henna night very common event in Turkey. Before the wedding bride’s sides
organize this night and invited the grooms side. Generally guess comprise the
women. Every women dance like crazy for several hours. After the several hours
bride sit the chair which stand in the middle and women walk around the bride.
Additionally, they sing a traditional song to bride’s crying. After a few
minutes, someone put the henna on the bride’s hands. In the end of the night
henna was put on the bride's hand and foot.
The final reason,
after the wedding ceremony generally some people who grooms side, they tied
toweling their cars and they get into their cars. They constitute autocue and they
drive away toward brides house with bride and groom. When they go to the brides
houses, bride kisses her family and her father tied red ribbon her loin. In addition,
her father put on the bridal veil and red shawl. Next bride and groom go to the
groom’s house with autocue. When they go to there, groom's families sacrifice
sheep for groom's welfare. After that, new couple kisses the groom’s family’s
hands.
All of this
point to the fact that my country has got a lot of customs about wedding and I think
they are very enjoyable and crucial. Customs has got significant meaning in the
wedding in my country. Permission wedding, henna and autocue only few sample
about wedding in Turkey.
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